kahwin oh kahwin

tetibe lak buat entry kahwin kan..
hahahhaa... gatai kan aku...
(sebenarnya tertarik dengan status salah satu dari kawan aq)

ok lah bercerita bab kahwin nie...
macam-macam benda yang keluar sebenarnya..
hantaran lah.. tema warna lah.. mas kahwin lah... macam-macam lah lagi..

sebelum aku menyeleweng dari niat asal aku berblogging malam nie
point pertama aku adalah

haaa...ni lah point pertama aku..

hantaran nak beriban2.. aku pun tak paham.. trend agaknya..

ye lah kalau ada sedara mara yang hantaran doplohnam riban.. kau pon nak doplohnam riban..

kalau tak tak nak kawen...gitoooo...

kalau bakal laki kau gaji bulan 8 riban keatas bolehlah sis..

nie stakat 2 -3 riban.. kau nak suroh bakal laki kau makan pasir semata-mata nk kawen dengan kau??

dan ape yang aku bebelkan ni adalah sama dengan apa yang dipekatakan dalam islam..

hantaran hendaklah TIDAK membebankan lelaki. 

tp yg lelaki pulak jangan nak ambil kesempatan nak stakat 4-5 riban..

korang (lelaki) kena fikir, perbelanjaan untuk majlis..nilai harga barang pada waktu sekarang.. tu aja..

point kedua

kalau boleh nak buat majlis besar-besar gabak..

ni lagilah aku tak faham.. one of makcik aku pernah cakap yang anak kawan dia kahwin dengan askar/polis lepas tu dapat jalan bawah pedang.. lepas tu suroh aku lak nk carik laki yang macam tu supaya aku dapat jalan bawah pedang (KAU GILA!!! busyuk aku,aku nk letak mana??!!)

lagilah aku kompius.. jalan bawah pedang je pown... ape yang bestnye?? kalau dapat duit berjuta-jutaa dengan jalan bawah pedang tu aku nak jugak..

lepas tu buat besar-besar hanya untuk tunjuk dekat kawan-kawan yang majlis dia tu grand gila lah...

sekali lagi islam menuntut kita untuk buat majlis secara bersederhana.

tu pasal yang nk menunjuk lah...

yg sebaliknya pulak

mengikut islam kita wajib untuk memberitahu orang ramai bahawsanya kita sudah berkahwin

yang hang nk pi sorok2 hang dah kahwin kenapa??

kang bila hang mengandung orang keliling mengata kau..

lepas tu kau nak marah??? dah lah jemput pun idak...

alailahhh....

point aku yang seterusnya

sorry lah aku tak pandai nk lukis hantaran cantik2... =_="

tapi ape yang penting???

bukan kerjasama yee.. tapi tu.... bunyi orang cakap tu

yang biasa di dengar " ni je ke hantarannya?" 

"iya je beg tu original, entah-entah beli dekat chowkit" 

"tak standard betul perfume dia" 

"hantaran nak grand aje.. tak nak kalah"

welll untuk makcik makcik dan kakak kakak yang dok megumpat tu.. henti2 kanlah umpatan anda..

biarlah orang tu nk letak bedak cina (yang dalam kotak gambar orng opera tu) nak letak barang shu emura ke.. suke hati die orang lah

letak barang mahal orang mengata, letak barang murah pown orang mengata..

haiii.. tak paham aku..

tu semua kan ikut kemampuan mereka.. sebab hantaran ni umpama hadiah dari kedua2 belah pihak..

ada ok.. tak ada pun ok.. korang nk bagi makanan semua pun ok..

tapi kalau mengikut islam ni.. tak ada hantaran2 bagai ni.. 

tp kalau tak silap aku disebabkan adat melayu kita yang dar turun temurun jadi hukumnya hanyalah harus.. bukan wajib yer.. so tak ada pun tak salah.. (mengikut bahan bacaan yang aku dah baca lah)

pokoknya kepada sesiapa yang nak kahwin.. fikir lah 5 tahun akan datang (perancangan 5 tahun) bukan perancangan dari kau start tunang sampai kau kahwin.. lepas tu kau gelabah tak ada perancangan.. lepas tu mulalah pening2 bagai.

aku ni pun kalau boleh nak nikah dan buat majlis sederhana je..

duit2 hantaran tu simpan untuk masa akan datang..

tapi tu lah.. family pulak yang tak setuju nanti.. mungkin bukan mak aku.. tapi sedara mara..

almaklumlah.. family besar rapat.. so ape yang dieorang cakap akan mempengaruhi mak aku jugak nanti.. =_=. 

*to my busyuk.. jangan pening2 k.. kite slow and steady je.. kalau dah jodoh tak kemana.. kerja rajin2 k.. nnt sy dah kerja sy akan berganding bahu untuk merialisasikan ape yang kite dah rancang k.. winkwink xoxo*

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STUDY WEEK

my journey during study week

early in the morning

Starting with 100%  focus and determination

but

after a few hour...

=_= 

 i dont know how many hour that ive been surfing

huhuhuhu.. until~~

still, i bring my notes close with me

even in my bed and while i was on the phone

then  got tired and sleeep..

very deep sleep

and until now, ive still dont know what i had read..

maybe for the sake of study week

i just read randomly

and not making any sense while im reading it

that why i cant remember..

and its keep on like that thie past 3 days of study weekk

aaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

stresss!!

coffee oh coffee

tetibe rasa terpanggil lak nk bercerita tentang coffee

well its begin when I was surfing on FB and 1 of my friend post about coffee and the bad effect of it to our health..
so far that i can remember is yes.. Lots of people said that coffee had their own bad effect..
Especially here in Malaysia..
we were taught that coffee is bad for our health, it can give migraine, insomnia, heart attack (because its increased heart beat)

but, here is the thing, our prophet Muhammad s.a.w drinks coffee as one of its "sunnah"
Caffeine in coffee is one of the things that helps to enhance the brain stimulation.
some say that caffeine can make us barren, but actually caffeine helps us to enhance the sex desire (this goes only for married people!! im serious!!)

the thing/food that can make us barren is soy not caffeine in coffee..gosh (this goes for both men and women)
and soy can also can increase the risk of breast cancer, ovary cancer, prostate cancer this is due to the estrogen hormone that is in soy is the same level as the estrogen hormone in a woman's body. still i cant believe that we Malaysian women we fall for it.
i mean come on how many products out there based on soy?? soy collegen drinks, soy drink for healthy body, soy drinks as suplement and many more. and most of  this product is targeting on women.

ok, back to coffee..
as far as i remember, most of the movie that i watch (english movie) mostly drinks coffee every morning and it is part of their lifestyle. and we as a Malaysian where most of the movie involving muslim (including director) so proud of having orange juice as a drink in the morning.. (gelak guling2)
this proof that coffee is not that bad, as long as you did not overtake it.
even the alien on MIB drink coffee..sigh
i dont think that every office in Malaysia has their own coffee maker..

i dont know why we make such a fuss of it.
where do we stand as a muslim?
to blindly follow the scientific fact that is made by human or we want to follow our prophet "sunnah"

'tepuk dada tanya iman'

the END

based from my topic up there you guys must think that i want to talk about today is the end of the world right???
well that what everybody been freaking out today..
end this.. end that.. solar system this.. that..
no internet connection.. no astro coverage..
bla..bla.bla..bla..
even the DJ on the radio blabber about this thing..

well for us muslim..
REMEMBER what Allah s.w.t have told us in Al-quran
what is the thing/ mark for the end of the day.. we should not forget that ok..
well if you forget here some of the things we need to always remember

- Kemunculan Imam Mahdi (return of imam Mahdi)

- Kemunculan Dajjal ( appearance of Dajjal(creature with one eyes..i forgot what its called for non -muslim)

- Turunnya Nabi Isa (AS) ( Nabi Isa a.s (Jesus) come down from sky (heaven maybe)

- Kemunculan Yakjuj Dan Makjuj ( appearance of Yakjuj and makjuj)

- Terbitnya matahari dari Barat ke Timur ( sun rising from west to east)

- Pintu pengampunan akan ditutup (door of forgiven by god will be closed forever)

- Dab'bat al-Ard akan keluar dari tanah & akan menandai muslim yang sebenar2nya ( Dab'bat al-ard will come up from the ground and will mark only the true muslim)

- Kabus selama 40 Hari akan mematikan semua orang beriman sejati shj mereka tidak perlu mengalami tanda2 kiamat lainnya (fog for 40 days and will bring death to true muslim because they will not have to faced the other mark of the end of the world)

- Sebuah kebakaran besar akan menyebabkan kerusakan,(a big fire that will bring big damage)

- Pemusnahan Kabah, (fall of kaabah)

- Tulisan dalam Al-Quran akan lenyap,( writing in Al-Quran will vanish)

- Sangkakala akan ditiup pertama kalinya binatang2 & org2 kafir yang tersisa akan mati, semua gunung & bangunan akan runtuh (in the first blow of "sangkakala" all the animals and people (kafir) that survive will die and all the mountain will fall down)

- Tiupan sangkakala yang kedua kalinya akan membangkitkan semua ciptaan Allah & bertemu di dataran Arafah menuju saat penghakiman mereka.. Dan Matahari akan mendekatkan dirinya ke bumi (second blow of "sangkakala" will bring up all the death that god created and will meet at Arafah for the judgement day)

well we(muslim ) need to hold on to this.. and make a good deed along the way..
haaa.... i took a long u turn from my actual topic

what i want to say for today is..
yestesday was the last class of my DEGREE study... weee~~~
that is the end....
foe next semester only going for practical..
no more classes to attend..no more boring lecture.. no more assignment
no more KC no more UPM..

for now just want to say..
SMK Jasin.. we will meet in february 2013..

weee~~~wee~~wee~~
*celebrating for myself*
THE END... mihmihmih

Final Majlis Makan Malam Rasmi (MMMR)

last night was dinner for celebrating us the final year students
kind of sad to leave those lovely people here in KC =_="

i wonder why we dont have a prom night like in the overseas??
should be fun..
i mean not like a dance party or what.. just having a gathering and enjoy ourselves..
not too much protocol to follow..
i always dream to have that kind of function..
but typically.. we cant have that kind of party here.. not in Malaysia..
sooo... lets migrate... mihmihmih...

overall last night is worth it..
nice food.. nice place..
and i got award that nite
Anugerah Budayawanis Canselor ( arts )
TQ jury cz believe in me... (^_^)


enjoy the picture of me and friends (^_^)

MMMR 2012/2013
semaian bakti teratak budi
pan pasific hotel, KLIA
16 disember 2012

me wearing saree (tq vic cz let me borrow your saree)

merry chrismast everybodyy..weeee~~

=_=" pic perasan lebeyyy

me with the arward.... (^_^) V

     

     

         

     

the usual thing to do... snap pic in the mirror.. 

US

this is the last MMMR for us..

next year we are coming as alumni

if we can come..

will miss this moment with you guys..

XOXO

its goes like this

ok it goes like this..
did you ever feel when your ex-bf/gf' reminisce about your past, about how good you guys when you are together??  about how its feel to miss the love between both of you?
well, i did.. and it is stupid ok

pleasee..
if you (EX) do it, you are just showing to me that how cheap your love is..
come on you got your girl.. take care off her..
no need to remind me that you miss message with me, or what so ever..
and the funny thing is you dream about me..
and you tell me about it.. that BULL SHIT man..
i dont want to know..

its funny when you guys been in this situation..trust me
its not worth it to attend this kind of situation..
come on, a guy with a girl say that they miss you soo much..
i mean...come on.. that shows that their love is very cheap ok..
not worth to have it. dont ever fall for the guy like this..
and also im pity for the girl that is with the man..

if you ex wants to be friend with you its ok.. but no need to keep talking about the past
Or about the dream that including us in it..
dont you "guys" feel guilty??



so FYI please stop